Last week, I shared a goofy post comparing kids to politicians. I didn’t take a side, at least not one that isn’t anti-kids or anti-politicians, but I did attach an old e-card to the post that took aim at Republicans.
Which turned out to be unfortunate – but not because I am a Republican. (When it comes to party affiliation, I have none; I’m registered as an independent, although I am pretty staunchly liberal.) It’s unfortunate because many people who saw the e-card couldn’t see anything else and quickly got mad at me for mocking the GOP.
But they mostly got upset that I was discussing politics on my Facebook page and on my website. Apparently, politics doesn’t have a place on a parenting page or a humor page.
Yeah. That’s bullshit.
It’s bullshit for several reasons:
- It’s my page. I can post and write and share what I want. If you don’t like it, that’s okay. Ignore it, unfollow me, tell me off in the comments, that’s fine. I’m putting myself out there, I know the risks, I like the give-and-take. We don’t always have to agree.
- Politics can be plenty funny. I totally agree with one commenter whose problem with my posts wasn’t a partisan one – she didn’t object to my stance, she merely finds all politics these days distasteful and disheartening and toxic, which they are. But they can be funny too, and the hilarity is not specific to either party. It’s the process, the people, and the farcical ineptitude of it all. If you consider my page to be humor-based, then I see no problem with the occasional political joke.
That said, whether you find my page – or my blog, or my Twitter, or my Instagram – funny or not, there’s no denying that it’s about parenting. But parenting is about everything. And if you don’t think politics – particularly a presidential race, particularly this presidential race – are relevant to your life as a parent, or to your kids’ lives, then you need to get your head out of your ass.
Does healthcare affect your life? Women’s rights? Gun laws? All of those things are on the line right now, and regardless of how you feel about them, they are all parenting issues. No, they’re not especially funny, but they are important and they do impact my life and the life of my children, so I occasionally feel the need to discuss them. You don’t have to like it, and you are free to unfollow all of my accounts. You’re even free to keep bitching and being ignorant! Bitch away; I’ll continue to use my blog and its associated social media accounts the way I see fit. (Oddly enough, my “serious” posts are usually my most popular, whether they cover vaccinations, allergies, gender issues, gun control, fear, etc.)
Over the weekend, I posted a photo of a “House of Cards”-themed pint glass (that I got as a member of the Netflix Stream Team). The glass shows the image of an upside-down flag, which is typically meant to be used by soldiers to convey “dire distress”. That’s according to the U.S. Flag Code, as I was informed by a commenter who was angry that I captioned it with a joke about how I’ll use it all the time if Trump is elected President. This led to a brief discussion in which I defended my and ignorant joke by saying something that I truly believe: that a Trump presidency does put our soldiers, and our country, and all of us, in dire distress.
(And maybe you think a Hillary Clinton presidency does the same, and that’s fine. I disagree – even if she’s corrupt and terrible, she’s corrupt and terrible in pretty much the exact same way that every politician is corrupt and terrible whereas Trump is an unqualified, thin-skinned, narcissistic, misogynistic, xenophobic, and bigoted bully and loose cannon, and that’s far more dangerous – but either way, feel free to share how you feel on your parenting page. It’s your right. As a citizen who is worried about his/her country, it’s practically your duty.)
The commenter replied that my life won’t change based on who becomes the next president, so I should just relax. And maybe she’s right. As a white, middle-class American man, my life may not change all that much. But if we’re to take Trump at his incendiary, fear-mongering word (which, elastic as it is, might be tough; maybe we should just look to his hateful, opportunistic character), life will change for millions of people. Ignoring the potential impact a Trump Presidency will have on them merely because it doesn’t impact you personally – even just having the ability to ignore it – strikes me as the very definition of privilege.
I may not be directly impacted by it, but it would be catastrophic for women, Mexicans, Muslims, and any other number of people in this country and around the world. The next president will also be appointing multiple justices to the supreme court; even if you think the Commander-in-Chief has been largely neutered in this fractious political environment, justices stand for life. Our kids and even our grand-kids will be affected by their decisions. Plus, the President will have the nuclear codes. I could be one of the 1% – hell, I could be in the Illuminati – hiding in the shadows, secretly pulling strings and living above the law – and that would affect me!
I should sit by and pretend I don’t care? Just because my page doesn’t usually tackle this stuff? Sorry, that’s not how I roll.
Frankly, it would be wrong for me to sit idly by and not use my “platform,” meager as it is and incongruous as it may seem, to attempt to sway people – as unlikely as that is in this ridiculously partisan and increasingly ignorant atmosphere – this dangerous clown. Even at the cost of hundreds of followers, cluing just one person in would be worth it.
So yeah, I’m going to speak out when I feel the need to, and sometimes that means I’m going to put political stuff on my parenting page, and that I’m occasionally going to get serious on my humor site.
In fact, we’ve probably been joking about this campaign for far too long. To paraphrase President Obama, “Don’t joke. Vote.”